White privilege exists. And I like it. Patriarchy exists. And it’s moral and a necessary pre-condition to the development of civilization. The personal is the political: women, especially in the home, constantly congruence-test men for control, even if they don’t actually want the control themselves. Power relations are important. Power dynamics are pervasive, but appropriating the concept doesn’t entail a transformation into a well-adjusted adult into a skulking tranny.
All it means is that you have to make peace with accepting radical positions–radical positions which almost certainly imply social ostracization, if you can’t’ control the frame, demonstrate high value, and rigorously defend your positions and deconstruct leftist axioms.