OK Cupid now lets people sort by race, and most do

The best news ever!

Is It Racist to Date Only People of Your Own Race?


By Reihan Salam

Reihan Salam hates human nature, answers “yes” to the question “is it racist to date only people of your own race? Hahahahaha! Too bad, Reihan!

n a somewhat similar vein, one of OkCupid’s questions reads as follows: “Would you strongly prefer to go out with someone of your own skin color/racial background?” I was struck by the not inconsiderable number of people who answered “yes”—including some people I know “in real life,” many of whom are hilariously self-righteous about their enlightened political views.

Keep in mind that OkCupid users can skip a question with ease. The people who answered this question had every opportunity to pass it by. What I found surprising about the fact that a fair number of people answered that they would indeed strongly prefer to go out with someone of their own skin color/racial background was not that this phenomenon exists in the world. Racial preferences in dating are quite common, and women appear to exhibit stronger same-race preferences than men. Rather, I was surprised that people would be willing to openly state that they had strong same-race preferences. One assumes that many people who do have such preferences would either choose not to disclose them publicly, or choose to skip the question entirely.

This latter day Herod hates White babies, saying that their existence and continuation perpetuates EEEEVIL white privilege!

Nevertheless, I do feel comfortable judging them guilty of being clueless. There are good reasons to question the moral appropriateness of strong same-race preferences and their close cousin, in-group favoritism. In The American Non-Dilemma, Nancy DiTomaso argues that persistent racial inequality in the United States is not solely or even primarily a reflection of racism and discrimination. Rather, it reflects the fact that whites tend to help other whites without ever discriminating against or behaving cruelly toward blacks and other nonwhites. As long as whites tend to dominate prestigious occupations, and as long as they control access to valuable social resources like access to good schools, the fact that whites, like all people, will do more to help family, friends, and acquaintances than strangers will tend to entrench racial inequality, provided that white people choose to associate primarily with other whites. DiTomaso observes that while Americans place very high value on the idea of equal opportunity, virtually all of us seek “unequal opportunity” in our own lives by leveraging our intimate relationships to achieve our goals, including our professional goals. Yet most of us don’t see the help of family and friends as an unfair leg up. This kind of “opportunity hoarding” is accepted as par for the course.

Salam quotes an author of a book The Duty to Miscegenate, and is outraged that whites who c claim to be liberals in their voting habits, are racists in their bedroom habits!

To be sure, dating is about more than the sharing of bread, and OkCupid users who express strong racial preferences may well be doing the world a favor by being open and honest about their wants. But I don’t think it’s too much to ask those who do express such preferences, and those who live them in practice, to reflect on them, and on how there might be more to fighting racism than voting “the right way.”

Reihan Salam is a columnist for Slate.

Doing the world a favor by telling everyone they are racist or something? Why, so you good people can keep them out of some social good? Hahaha! They are doing the world a favor by propagating white children!

They used to say, “everyone will be brown in another generation.” Ha! I guess not, fuckers!


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7 Responses to OK Cupid now lets people sort by race, and most do

  1. Rita Rabbit says:

    It is absolutely outrageous that these scumbags want to tell us even who to have sex with. Hitler (the ultimate fascist in their eyes) never even tried that one!

    I also don’t see him upset about Asians etc. who prefer their own. Par for the course.

    I’m really glad White people like each other still though. I went to a community gathering last night and reveled in the Whiteness and the blondness of the families.

  2. countenance says:

    This is the same site, OkStupid, that started the row that got Brendan Eich canned from Mozilla.
    Maybe OkStupid is trying to save its own reputation?

  3. Hauer says:

    So much of ‘social good’ in modern western society hinges on denial on essential parts of human nature. It becomes all too apparent when it starts to clash with common sense. In OKCupid’s case, ‘social good’ threatens their bottom line. The lofty ideals of a post-racial utopia have to meet with reality sooner or later. Is it any surprise that most people drawn that line at money?

  4. Anon says:

    One of the things I would like to see OKCupid do is remove whites from consideration with their “would you date outside your race” question. everyone wanting to date whites is different from everyone wanting to date out.

  5. Cj aka Elderofzyklons Blog says:

    Reblogged this on ElderofZyklon's Blog!.

  6. LOL you cannot make this stuff up.

    Reihan Salam quotes from a paper titled “The Duty to Miscegenate.” Essentially, they are saying if white wimminz won’t have sex with them, it’s racist. That, in fact, liberals have a duty to miscegenate to prove they aren’t racist.

    It’s something maybe a 12 year old brown boy would think up. This guy gets paid to write too – think about it.

    as long as they control access to valuable social resources like access to good schools,

    What makes it a “good school?” It’s the white kids and the white teachers that make it a “good school.” We – ourselves, our people – are just “valuable social resources” to these people, and we are “controlling access.”

  7. Wally says:

    Slate is a jewish run website. Everyone should remember that. It is anti-white jewish ideology that has been accepted by non-jews. Everyone should never forget who are the people funding and running that website- the people behind the scenes.

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